Photo Story: Introducing Alpha Slave “S”

Master Atmydisposal has taken on a new alpha slave to add even more to the experience of visiting His chambers for His clients.

Alpha Slave “S” is on his own journey right now, but has great potential as a sub and also as The Master’s assistant when handling submissives and slaves like YOU. He is young, well-built, energetic and takes His instructions extremely well. Subject to his ability and The Master’s generosity, clients that book Master for at least one day can request him.

Recently, Alpha Slave “S” attended The Master’s Chambers for a photoshoot but got an awful lot more than he bargained for.

You can see a selection of pictures from the extremely horny session in the photo gallery (above).

If you would like to book a session with The Master and experience the delicious pleasures of Alpha Slave “S”, contact The Master NOW. He will book up extremely quickly.

-Master.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Forget the G spot, what about the B Point?

There are times when a sub or slave says to me (usually nervously) “Sir, I want you to break me”. For the uninitiated, the sub is referring to that point where they go beyond all their previous limits. I don’t want people thinking that every session of mine is about reaching this limit, because it is not. But in the scenario I’m discussing here, the play has been so intense that the sub or slave has been tested, been able to progress beyond their usual limits and is now in unchartered territory.

The moment when the sub reaches the B Point can be feel like he’s adrift in an endless sea –just floating aimlessly and without a life preserver.

It is unnerving. The sub is exposed and vulnerable possibly for the first time in a long time because up to this point, they have submerged their emotions just to get on in life from day to day. Often, they don’t expect the intensity of the feelings that emerge. I’ve seen anger, despair, joy, relief and everything else you can possibly imagine.2016-05-15 15.17.56

At that point, they are frightened for so many reasons, yet open and receptive to anything I might choose to do them. Or they may close up emotionally and seek to protect themselves.

You see breaking someone in a BDSM context is not about hurting the sub per-se, it’s about doing a full mind and body reset. What I do is not violence.

Think of this process like an electrical system. If too much electricity passes down the wires, circuit breakers are tripped and the power goes off. It’s exactly the same with getting a sub or slave to the Breaking Point.

The pain and the stimuli are built up over time, slowly and gradually or fast and abruptly.

Inevitably, the subject reaches a point where they are unable to take what’s happening and all the usual coping mechanisms are beginning to fail. The sub’s fuse box (brain) overloads and the ‘reset’ is complete.

One of the more beautiful aspects to this is that because they are exposed (and reset), all of the many layers of adult protections and coping mechanisms just melt away.

Rubbersj_Lucas5I play with guys of all ages, but in my experience the response as they reach this point is very similar. The head goes down, the body language shifts and the person either tenses up or goes into a form of ultra-relaxation (a zen like state some people call subspace). Whether they become tense of relax is really down to the individual’s make-up and how open they are to the kind of experience they are about to have. If tense, the person may want to get the hell out of Dodge and fast. If relaxed, every touch at this point will feel electric and ecstatic.

It can be as if the sub is back to being a child before they became beaten up by all that the adult world chose to throw at them. Divorce. Job loss. Grief. Money worries and debt. Failed relationships. If we’ve reached a certain age, we’ve all experienced at least some of these things and yes, we long for a time when we can just be there in the moment and experiencing life without worry. Just like a child.

In this way, reaching the Breaking Point can bring about a palpable catharsis – whether they’ve reached that point through pain, intense stimuli, a mind game or something else like just the sound of my voice as I threaten them with ever more intense sensations. Website_Gasmask1

What happens after the sub has reached the Breaking Point is always interesting too. Subs can feel such pride at having experienced such an intense set of sensations that they leave me feeling and looking like they’ve won a medal. The smiles are often beaming and I’m usually very generous with the hugs and reassurance. It’s a privilege to witness this moment as a Dom, no matter how apparently heartless you have had to be to get the sub or slave to that point.

It can cause serious levels of introspection and reflection. Yes, it can also cause a sub to decide not to return to Me again (but that is rare, what’s more common is that we talk about what happened and what triggered it).

Often these reflections continue days and weeks later.

You see good play is like good therapy: it helps people feel stronger and more centered in every aspect of their life because for the first time in a long time, they can once again be that happy go lucky version of themselves without a care in the world, just feeling in the moment and yes happy. Once again, they are letting themselves feel true emotions and after all, isn’t that what being alive is supposed to be about?

If you were to ask me why I love BDSM so much, it’s for times like these when I have someone’s spirit in my hand and I’m sharing such an emotional and healing moment. It doesn’t happen every time, some people just have their fun and leave, but when it does happen, it makes Me feel eight foot tall and proud of what the sub has achieved.

-Master.

It really is OK to see a Pro-Dom (a completely biased perspective)

This is going to be a very self-serving post on my blog. But you know what, I make absolutely no apology for what I’m about to say even though I fully acknowledge my bias and interest. Why? Because I think this is a point that needs to be made.

As usual prior to a session, I chatted with a client on the phone yesterday for about an hour and he re-raised a point that I made to him in an earlier exchange. That is: it really is OK to see a pro-Dom.

Website_sj1First of all, there is no shame in choosing to see a pro-Dom. In fact, park the idea of shame and don’t even give it a second thought. Second, seeing a professional Dominant, such as myself, who has many years of experience and that has seen hundreds of different guys, ensures a high calibre, safe yet challenging experience. We’ve made every mistake it’s possible to make a long time ago. And third, the best of us invest in our passion way beyond that of even the keenest amateur – basically, we have a lot of gear for subs and slaves to try. In contrast to what you might be feeling as you read this, choosing to see a professional can actually be a far better decision.

The advent of instant hook up and dating apps can make anyone feel inadequate even Me (ok, well not that often, I am a Dom after all). It can look like everyone but you is getting it on tap. But trust me: while that may look like the situation, in reality so many play sessions end in last minute cancellations, excuses, mismatched expectations and generally the sense that they would’ve been better spending the money for the train ticket on a nice bottle of wine and an on demand movie. I’ve even had subs that tell me they’ve deleted their profiles on these apps in favour of good old fashioned meetings with people like me and attendance at events.

I have nothing to prove; I know I am good at what I do and can turn my devious mind to ‘inflicting pleasure’ on any client. Whereas many amateur Doms and Tops don’t live the lifestyle and are therefore still learning and finding their feet; with a true lifestyle pro-Dom, they have a coda and deep understanding of the D/s dynamic and how to make it work for both parties.

Why else people choose to see a professional Dominant

Clients also choose to see a pro-Dom for a multitude of reasons:

  1. Safety. Some clients feel safe knowing that a pro-Dom like me takes matters like safety, scene negotiation and aftercare very seriously indeed. Everything is cleaned to hospital levels and general standards of hygiene are very high.
  2. Good business. We have a vested interest in them having a good time – as we hope they’ll book again.
  3. No pressure. They don’t have to worry about how they look, what’s going on in the ‘real world’ or anything else. They can hand over power to us and not be concerned about the risks.
  4. Really no pressure. While all my subs and slaves do their best to impress me, there’s not the same pressure to ensure everyone is having a good time. Although frankly, I always do have a good time with my clients.
  5. We don’t judge. A pro-Dom makes no judgements as to why a person has the fantasies they have or the kinks they hold dear.
  6. We want you to have ‘fun’. Amateur Doms tend to be purely interested in their own needs; the needs of the sub are somewhat secondary and while this can be a very arousing fantasy, in reality if none of the sub’s boxes are ticked, they’re not going to want to play again with that Dom.
  7. We work hard. And because we always want to have long-term clients, we do our best to make sure that a scene meets the client’s expectations.

By the way, that’s not the same as saying that we give them everything they want. Meinboots_playroom1Regardless of whether a sub pays or not, they get the same treatment from Me: My rules rule. But what is different is that pro-Doms like me take pride in what they do and work hard to make it work for the client.

So my advice? Give serious consideration to seeing a pro-Dom like Me. Yes, it’s a significant amount of money, but what would you pay to have your wildest fantasies realised – if even only once?

Most guys would say, ‘in reality, an awful lot’. – Master.

Sub versus slave

During the last few long client sessions the subject of submissive versus slave has come up with unusual levels of regularity. Granted, I often ask clients the role that they want to adopt, but nonetheless it seems many people are now more closely considering what it would be like to be ‘Slave for a day’ or two. So I thought I’d give my take on the distinctions and issues with both roles. They are very different in reality. It strikes me that people are feeling as uncertain as they did during the financial crisis now that the UK has taken the decision to change its relationship with the rest of the world through Brexit.

Now, I’m not going to turn my blog into a political polemic, but I often find that people come and see me when they desire to retreat from the stresses and strains of their everyday existence.

So, submissive versus slave:

A submissive is an active participant in every aspect of a session. They are more play partners than slaves. Not quite equal partners, but partners in what happens to each party. While some subs dream of being a slave, perhaps 90-95% of them are really submissives. They don’t ever surrender full control to Me. They lend it to me with the proviso that if things get tough, they can always take that power back (or run away screaming, if things get a little too intense). Subs get safewords and they get the opportunity to slow things down when it gets tough. With me, I build up a scene gradually, so I don’t often get to the point of an absolute stop, but I do find subs occasionally use safewords. Subs need to feel they have some kind of choice over what happens next – even if few really exercise that choice. It’s worth saying too that in our society, even the word submissive is very emotive and laden with undertones, so to some subs, being a sub is enough. Despite what people may think, I don’t judge a sub differently to a slave. I don’t see them as weaker and I understand totally why someone might find being a sub hard enough.2016-06-25 11.39.57

A slave is an active recipient of Me in a session. I want to make a distinction here between a slave in the first session (who has safewords) and a slave in the second and subsequent sessions (who does not). Slaves have to have 100% faith and trust in the skills, experience and compassion of their Dom. They need to know that they would not take them beyond the point of ‘no return’ to a place where actual damage – either mental or physical – is being done to them under the guise of slave ownership. Slavery is a hot fantasy and I have had the pleasure of playing with many hot slaves in my time. Young, virile and very beautiful young males that have the whole world in front of them and yet desire to give themselves to a Man like me that they judge to be their superior. But a prospective slave always needs to ask themselves a few key questions:

  1. Would you still be happy to be a slave after you have had the long-awaited orgasm?
  2. If I told you to wake Me up with an orgasm on a Sunday morning despite going to bed on Saturday at 4am, could you do it?
  3. If I told you to tidy my playrooms while I go to bed, could you do that?
  4. If I denied you access to Me for as long as I liked, would you still serve Me and Worship Me?
  5. Would you do everything and anything I asked without a moment’s hesitation even if it compromised you in some way?

If you can answer ‘Yes, without hesitation’ to these questions, then perhaps you are a slave after all.

A note about Fake Doms

It depresses me as someone that considers Himself to be both a Dominant and fairly decent sexual empath that there are so many people that call themselves Tops or Doms when in reality they are just abusers and employing forms of sexual violence to control another. I don’t do that, nor would I ever do that to a sub or slave in my charge. So even if you did become my slave, you would never be hurt in ways you would struggle to recover from. That’s not the same as saying I wouldn’t train you and push you to your upper tolerances, but I would not abuse you for my kicks or for fun.

 

Introducing the new Master Atmydisposal site

I am very happy to launch My new website and blog. I have developed this site to give people a clear idea on the kind of play I am willing to undertake and the kind of sessions that my professional clients enjoy. Over the course of the coming days, weeks, months and years, I am going to employ this blog as a way of educating people inside and outside the scene (and the gay community) about what it’s like to be a professional gay Dom or indeed what you can expect when you see one.

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